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Reducing Screen Time, and Redefining Rest

18-May-2025

Changing how I defined rest changed everything for me.I had been tracking my phone screen time for the past 6 months and found myself spending an average of 4 hours a day, with the largest spikes happening in the evenings. The days that I spent more than 3 hours, I noticed I was really low on energy by the end of the day and struggling to fall asleep.Near the end of April, I found myself sick with another viral infection that latched onto my throat. My doctor had told me to rest. And for the longest time, I thought “rest” meant lying in bed watching YouTube, TV, or something else to completely disassociate while on medication. Essentially, more screen time 😅That’s what I saw growing up. That’s what everyone around me did when they were sick or recovering. It was the only model of rest I knew.But over time, I noticed that kind of “rest” wasn’t actually helping me recover. It felt passive and numbing, and I was relying completely on the medicine to do all the heavy lifting while I mentally checked out of my own body. Anything to avoid the scratchy throat, throbbing laryngeal pain, and aching muscles...😭And honestly, maybe that kind of escapism works for acute pain or the first 24–48 hours of getting sick. But beyond that? I think it was making things worse, not better.Discovering a New Way to Think About RestOne day, deep in a YouTube spiral while sick, I stumbled across "I'm A Potato Hour" by WISE JOE.There was something about it that hit differently.The way he talked about the power of doing nothing felt so counterintuitive, and yet so exactly what I needed. I had been trying to solve my screen time problem by restricting myself and creating new rules. But what if I just did something else? What if, instead of trying to avoid the screen, I replaced the habit with lying down and doing absolutely nothing?My First Attempt
Once I recovered, I wanted to give "Doing Nothing" a shot. The first time I tried it, I didn’t want to lie in bed because I knew I’d fall asleep. So I lay down on the floor, stared up at the ceiling, and just... lay there. It felt kind of funny.But something unexpected started happening. After about 5 or 10 minutes of thinking about how silly this was, ideas began to bubble up—like popcorn.“Maybe I should start mapping out people's product team assignment by component team on Miro ...”“What if I tried to measure meetings by Return on Time Invested using 10,000 yen as a starting amount?”"I wonder what Nonki Bistro is like ... maybe I should go there tomorrow!"Some of those ideas would keep circling around in my head, and I’d grab a notepad, jot them down, and go back to lying down. No pressure to do anything with them. Just write, release, return to stillness.The Aftereffect
After 30 to 45 minutes of doing nothing, I got up feeling refreshed. Not numbed, not distracted—clear.It was a different kind of clarity than I’d ever gotten from scrolling. My brain felt lighter. As I got up, my immediate next steps came to me easily (which, to be fair, was usually: “time to eat something lol 🤤🍛”).Doing nothing gave me a kind of mental space I hadn’t felt in a long time. It helped me reconnect with what I actually wanted, not what was being served up by algorithms or autoplay suggestions.What I LearnedNot all rest is restorative.
What looks like rest (scrolling in bed) might actually be more draining than helping.Doing nothing is a practice.
At first it felt awkward, but over time, it became something I actually looked forward to.Replacing a habit is often easier than resisting one.
Instead of just telling myself not to look at my phone, I gave myself something else to do—nothing—and let that be enough.

Learning to Read Again (and Actually Enjoying It)

20-Apr-2025

My relationship with reading has had its ups and downs.The earliest books I remember reading were The Great Illustrated Classics versions of The Jungle Book and Black Beauty. I was more into comic books back then — Archie, Batman — things with visuals. That love for images accompanying text carried over to my first book with no pictures: Harry Potter. I wanted to get the American editions because they had illustrations at the beginning of the chapter.As I got older, reading became more of an obligation — something I did for school rather than for pleasure. It wasn’t until I moved to Canada in my teens that I picked up reading again for fun. I discovered Dean Koontz’s thrillers (Sole Survivor, Hideaway), and was hooked by his vivid descriptions of characters and scenes. His book Intensity still stands out as my favorite piece of fiction, even today.For non-fiction, most of my reading again came from school or university assignments. After graduating, I avoided books altogether. I saw them as requiring too much focused effort — not something I associated with enjoyment.Things changed when I started working at Best Buy Canada. My then-manager (and now friend and mentor), Marius, slowly encouraged me to read again — not for just work, but as a way to grow and learn for my own personal development. With his recommendations, and mentioning of books that I'll never read, I picked up Give and Take by Adam Grant and The Power of When by Daniel Pink. They helped me see non-fiction differently — not as something heavy or tedious, but as tools that could change how I worked and lived.

My reading habits really took off after I moved to Japan. At one point, I kept up a once a week reading streak for 149-weeks — almost three years! What helped most was approaching reading gently and making it feel rewarding with:- Short, consistent sessions- Reading in cozy, nature-oriented environments- Letting myself get distracted, then noting thoughts in Kindle highlights instead of fighting to keep myself focused, as I did in school

I also mixed fiction and non-fiction. Just recently I read The Help by Kathryn Stockett, and it also gave me practical takeaways to build resilience. (Aibileen’s nightly prayer journal inspired me to start my own.)Of course, reading in today’s world isn’t easy. My phone screen time averages around 3-4 hours daily and I can feel my attention span getting shorter and shorter. But reading helps me take a moment to slow down, and really think through my thoughts.I’m incredibly grateful to Marius for his support — even when I tried to shortcut the process by having someone else summarize non-fiction books for me, so that I could get the takeaways without investing the time. He was right: there’s no substitute for hearing the author’s voice directly, unfiltered by anyone else.

To help myself stay consistent, I’ve learned to hack my habits. I sometimes pair books with related videos — for example, watching Peter Senge’s talks on The Fifth Discipline while reading the book — because I know I absorb information easily through visuals. I’ll often watch once at 2x speed for content, then again at normal speed to absorb tone and emotion.And I always take notes. Every time a thought strikes or I start to lose focus, I highlight and jot something down. Kindle’s note feature has become a way for me to actively engage rather than passively consume.

I wanted to share this story for anyone trying to (re)discover the joy of reading. If you’ve felt disconnected from books or overwhelmed by the idea of getting started, you’re not alone. You don’t need to read for hours a day or finish a book a week. You just need small steps, curiosity, and the willingness to follow your own pace.

Small Habits, Big Results

25-Mar-2025

Recently, I lost 12.2kg over 8.5 months, going from 92kg on July 1, 2024 to 79.8kg on March 17, 2025. It wasn’t an overnight transformation, but small, consistent changes made a big difference.

Here are the key changes that helped me get there:

Started Jogging DailyI began with just 5 minutes of jogging every morning. Gradually, I built up to 10 minutes and now run for 15 minutes. Consistency over intensity was the game-changer.

Strength Training Twice a WeekStrength training became a core part of my routine. I started with a personal trainer once a week. As I gained confidence, I reduced sessions to once every two weeks, and now I check in with my trainer just once a month.For day-to-day workouts, I’ve been using ChatGPT as a stand-in personal trainer. It’s great for getting progression advice, though it does tend to forget details after around 10 messages.I also "talked" to ChatGPT throughout my workout, and at the end I asked it to summarize my workout (had to check and correct details) which I then sent to my personal trainer.

Changed My Last Meal TimingI used to snack late at night, sometimes as late as 1 or 2 AM. The first shift I made was to stop eating after 8:30 PM. This cut down unnecessary calories and improved my sleep quality.

Adjusted My Approach to DietCounting calories and tracking macros didn’t work for me — it felt like too much effort since I don’t cook often. Instead, I focused on checking nutrition labels more regularly. Paying attention to fat and protein content helped me make better choices without overcomplicating things.

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